Before a face-to-face meeting, introduce the cat and children through scent. You can exchange blankets or soft toys used by each party to familiarize them with each other's scent. This can make the actual meeting less stressful for the cat.

Ensure that your cat's health is monitored and maintained, including regular check-ups and vaccinations. A healthy cat is more likely to be in a good mood and less likely to display aggression.